When a surgery or hospital stay for your child looms, it is easy to get caught up in all of our adult preparations. It's even easier to totally forget about preparing your little -soon to be- patient and her siblings. Our little people have sensitive spirits and catch on quickly when mommy and daddy are heavy on emotion. Over the past year plus of 12 hospital encounters with three kids, we've learned some things about preparing ourselves and our kids.
One of the biggies? Knowledge. They say it is power, and that's truth.
Little minds tend to wonder and wander onto all the possible scary things that might happen at a hospital. Adults are weary of unknowns and so are kids. Parents can research and ask lots of questions, but kids need some prep too. Picture books are the perfect way to inform them about what they might see and experience.
From hospital bracelets to vitals, IVs, scrubs and masks, the more they see in advance, the less scary the experience will feel. Whether your child has grown up experiencing hospital stays, or faces one big scheduled surgery, I recommend children's books for before, during and after. They give a voice and vocabulary to the hospital experience. Siblings will benefit too as they process through their own emotions and fears about what their brother or sister will experience (or has experienced).
Here are some recommendations:
by Margret & H.A. Rey
"It's going to hurt, George," she said, "but only for a moment."
by Paulette Bourgeois
"Everybody thinks I am brave, but I'm just pretending. X-rays will show that inside I'm scared."
Dr. Bear replied, "Just because you're afraid doesn't mean you aren't being brave. Being brave means doing what you have to do, no matter how scared you feel."
by Howard Bennett
Harry's mom cuddled Harry and explained that Dr. Meadows wouldn't give him an IV if he didn't need it. Dr. Meadows told him the needle part would feel like a sharp pinch, but it would only be in his arm for a few seconds. The part that stayed in his arm would be a soft plastic tube that let the water go into his body, and it wouldn't hurt at all.
by Nancy G. Attebury
This is the operating room. We call it the OR for short. You can see that it's very clean and bright. Doctors and nurses who work in the OR wear caps, masks, plastic gloves, special tops and pants, and shoe covers. Everything is sterile. We want the OR to be free from germs.
by Debbie Duncan
After a while, Mom and Molly spent more time at the doctor's office than they did at home. Dad said Molly needed lots of tests. "Are they like spelling tests?" I asked.
"No," Dad said, smiling a little. "They are x-rays, blood tests and things like that."
by Mercer Mayer
Follow brave Little Critter as he rides in an ambulance, meets the doctor, and gets his first X-ray and his first cast.
Usborne First Experiences Going to the Hospital
by Michelle Bates
Ben Bell is not feeling very well. His ear aches as it often does. Mrs Bell takes him to see Doctor Small who checks his ear using an otoscope. He tells Ben that he needs to have an operation at the hospital to make his ear better. On arrival at the hospital Ben's mum helps him to change his clothes and unpack. He is not allowed to eat anything for six hours.
illustrated by Stephen Cartwright gets my highest recommendation.
I LOVE this book and will be buying it for my kids and friends' kids as they approach hospital stays. The illustrations are simple and informative with spaces for stickers of the equipment and other things they might encounter in the hospital. So fun!
We have had all of these books in our home this week, and all of our kids have been reading them and pointing out things they've seen and experienced. For us, they've been a great way to retell our hospital experiences.
If you have other recommended books, I'd love the suggestions.
Courage, dear hearts.
This post is pot one in the Medical Momma Toolkit: A Tips, Tricks and Encouragement Series





































